Character flaws, Character Checkup, Jesus Redeemer

Gods-willThis morning in our Saturday Morning Men's Group (called Men of Faith) we talked about a passage that struck me in a different way. The text is in Luke 17:7-10 which states:

(ESV) Unworthy Servants 7 “Will any one of you who has a servant[a] plowing or keeping sheep say to him when he has come in from the field, ‘Come at once and recline at table’? 8 Will he not rather say to him, ‘Prepare supper for me, and dress properly,[b] and serve me while I eat and drink, and afterward you will eat and drink’? 9 Does he thank the servant because he did what was commanded? 10 So you also, when you have done all that you were commanded, say, ‘We are unworthy servants;[c] we have only done what was our duty.’”.

I am not sure about the rest of you, but what hit me in the text is a mulititude of emotions that become evident in my life at various times and places as events unfold. That is to say, when there are other stresses of life events that cause me to stray away from being the man that God wants me to be. As I was preparing to lead this morning earlier in the week, I conveniently stumbled (thank you Holy Spirit) on a blog entry from Tim Keller, in which Tim so eloquently talks about John Newton.

Tim gave a list of his that I used to begin the bible study with before going onto Luke 17:7-10. Here is Tim's list:

Austerus is a solid and disciplined Christian, but abrasive, critical and ungenerous in dealing with people, temperamental, seldom giving compliments and praise, and almost never gentle.

Infitialis is a person of careful and deliberate character, but habitually cynical, negative, and pessimistic, always discouraging (“that will never work”), unsupportive and vaguely unhappy.

Pulsus is passionate, but also impulsive and impatient, not thinking things through, speaking too soon, always quick to complain and lodge a protest, often needing to apologize for rash statements.

Querulus is a person of strong convictions, but known to be very opinionated, a poor listener, argumentative, not very teachable, and very slow to admit they were wrong.

Subjectio is a resourceful and ambitious person, but also someone who often shades the truth, puts a lot of spin on things (close to misrepresentation), is very partisan, self-promoting, and turf-conscious.

Potestas gets things done, but needs to control every situation, has trouble sharing power, has a need to do everything him or herself, and is very suspicious and mistrustful of others.

Fragilis is friendly and seeks friends, but constantly gets his or her feelings hurt, easily feels slighted and put down, is often offended and upset by real and imagined criticism by others.

Curiosus is very sociable, but enjoys knowing negative things about people, finds ways of passing the news on, may divulge confidences, and enjoys confrontation too much.

Volatilis is very kind-hearted and eager to help, but simply not reliable—isn’t punctual, doesn’t follow through on promises, is always over-extended, and as a result may do shoddy work.

What surprised me next was the amount of "quiet" was in the room. You seen, normally these guys like to talk, but not this time. It seemed like Tim's "latin phrases" through the Holy Spirit struck a chord with the guys. It was not my intent to condemn, but rather to put things in perspective, which is why we went right to Luke 17:7-10. To me, that verse tells us that we are to live in such a way that when others look at our lives (our actions, our deeds and our thoughts) that they see the light and love of Jesus Christ. When we do his will and not ours, it is amazing at what God will do through us if we just sumbmit and obey his will.

As you read these verses I would like you to put this in perspective and use this as a time to do a self check and possilby a time of confession in where we are with Jesus. Draw near to him and see what he can and will do in your life.

Thoughts?

Dante

Balancing act of church and sports with kids...(not just a fan)

worshipWARNING:  The following words may offend you.  The following statements may anger you.  The following statements may wound you.  The following statements may make you say, it is about time someone said this.NOTE: The disclaimer you just read is for your health benefit and for mine.

An excerpt from Andre Agassi (World Champion Tennis Player):

"I play tennis for a living even though I hate tennis, hate it with a dark and secret passion and always have." "Agassi poignantly recalls a telephone conversation with his father after winning Grand Slam title No. 1 at Wimbledon in 1992. Dad's initial reaction? "You had no business losing that fourth set," Agassi writes." "Plenty, it turns out. Excerpts of Agassi's upcoming autobiography published Wednesday by Sports Illustrated and The Times of London contain graphic depictions of his use of crystal meth, an account of how he wriggled his way out of a suspension by lying to the ATP tour after failing a 1997 drug test and the jarring contention that he always hated tennis "with a dark and secret passion" because of his overbearing father."idolsports

At this point, you may be saying, "so what is your point?".  Have you ever heard of the phrase, "the devil is in the details?"  I think that that is very relevant to my topic.  I don't want to offend, nor do I want to tell you how to live your lives, but I hope and pray that this gives you something to think about.  That being said, I want to ask you when we as a society said that it is okay to let idolatry take over our call to be disciples of Jesus Christ?

Let me put it this way.  Some where in time we thought that sports, technology, television, work and your hobbies are acceptable before prioritizing God.  Take sports, for instance, year round travel league clubs, sporting clubs and the hustle and bustle of "you have to do this if you want your kids to move up and be considered for the next best thing".  You have to get the latest APP if you want to be in the know and relevant.  You have to do this and you have to do that.

Seriously?  Let's put this in perspective.  I am writing this not to condemn you the reader, but to give my life a reality check.  I want to have my children own my faith.  I want my children to love the Lord their God with all their heart, mind, body, soul and strength.  I want them to own that before anything else in their lives (gymnastics, piano, Star Wars, books, art, crafts, games, and so on).  I want them to have that modeled to them by their mom and dad.

makingThere is a book, by Randy Frazee called, "Making Room for Life'  It is a good read and I would have sub-titled it, "Making Room for God".  Because, at the end of our lives, does it really matter what game our child won, or whatever I did that did not include God in my service (worship)?

At the end of the day, what should really matter to us?  Solomon, in all his wisdom, talks about life and our lives, "we are but a vapor."  When we put things into perspective, and if we really give an honest answer, how much of our time does God really have?  Be honest, do we squeeze him in for an hour on Sunday and 7 days worth of 15 minutes each day of prayer?   Less then?  More then?

Are you a fan or are you a follower of Jesus Christ? Revelation 3:13-15

13 Whoever has ears, let them hear what the Spirit says to the churches.

14 “To the angel of the church in Laodicea write:

These are the words of the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the ruler of God’s creation. 15 I know your deeds,that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other!

Are you willing to finish the race that Jesus Christ has set before you?

 

 

 

 

 

to be a follower!

 

 

What about you?

 

 

Thoughts?

 

Dante

 

Teaching your children how to pray.

5 Finger Prayer


1. YOUR THUMB is nearest you.  So begin your prayers by praying for those closest to you. They are the easiest to remember. To pray for our loved ones is, as C. S. Lewis once said, a "sweet duty."

2. The next finger is the POINTING FINGER.  Pray for those who teach, instruct and heal. This includes teachers, doctors, and ministers.  They need support and wisdom in pointing others in the right direction. Keep them in your prayers.

3. The next finger is the TALLEST FINGER.  It reminds us of our leaders.  Pray for the president, leaders in business and industry, and administrators.  These people shape our nation and guide public opinion. They need God's guidance.

4. The fourth finger is our RING FINGER. Surprising to many is the fact that this is our weakest finger; as any piano teacher will testify.  It should remind us to pray for those who are weak, in trouble or in pain.  They need your prayers day and night. You cannot pray too much for them.

5. And lastly comes our LITTLE FINGER ; the smallest finger of all which is where we should place ourselves in relation to God and others. As the Bible says, "The least shall be the greatest among you.!" Your pinkie should remind you to pray for yourself. By the time you have prayed for the other four  groups, your own needs will be put into proper perspective and you will be able to pray for yourself more effectively.

(text from Sugardoodle)

Until sin is bitter...

The Apostles' Creed

I believe in God, the Father Almighty,the Creator of heaven and earth,and in Jesus Christ, His only Son, our Lord:

Who was conceived of the Holy Spirit,born of the Virgin Mary,suffered under Pontius Pilate,was crucified, died, and was buried.

He descended into hell.

The third day He arose again from the dead.

He ascended into heavenand sits at the right hand of God the Father Almighty,whence He shall come to judge the living and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy catholic [universal] church,the communion of saints,the forgiveness of sins,the resurrection of the body,and life everlasting.

Amen.

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When is it good to hate?  Is it ever good to hate? Why do people hate?  Are there things that you loathe and would not bat an eye if it were destroyed before your very eyes never to be seen or heard from again?

Romans 7:15-19

English Standard Version (ESV)

"15 For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. 16 Now if I do what I do not want, I agree with the law, that it is good. 17 So nowit is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me. 18 For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. 19 For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing."

When we confess Jesus is Lord and believe in our heart that he was born of a virgin, died on a tree,  and rose again - we will be saved!  We then are a new creation in Christ, but we still have the old self (the flesh) battling against our new self in Christ.

think-on-these-things-2We were dead in sin and when we are saved, we are raised with Christ.  Therefore, God calls us to a new level of understanding (a call to action:  Read Romans 12 & Colossians 3).  We need to set our minds on thing above.  We need to put away the earthly things.  We need to clothe ourselves with love and kindness and putting on the love that binds and give thanks to God.

We need to train ourselves to hate the very things that God hates and that can it is wellturn us away from him.  For me, idols can be television, lust, pride and selfishness.  These things stand in my way and become idols that can separate me from God.  Therefore, knowing these things, I have to input his Word daily in my life and pray continually (throughout the day).  As we read in James, draw closer to God and he will draw closer to you.  The rest becomes a lot easier as then our old self and its desires is further away from our heart and the new self is being guided by the Holy Spirit.

Why should we hate sin:

  1. We should hate sin because of the suffering that sin causes.
  2. We should hate sin because not everyone will be rescued from the effects of sin.
  3. We should hate sin because the consequences of sin are even worse in the life to come.
  4. We should hate sin because of the way sin prevents us from benefiting from the mercy of God.
  5. We should hate sin so that we will stop sinning.
  6. We should hate sin because it diverts us away from the display of the glory of God.

When we focus more on him and less on us then we find his abundant life for us (Jeremiah 29) and we find his favor and peace.  He will not withhold the good and promised blessings that he has in store for us.  Please don't confuse this with the "perfect life" without trials and tribulations.  Remember that Jesus told us that those that bear his name will be persecuted.  Christianity was never promised to be easy street.

So what do you think on this?  Let us know some of your thoughts?

Blessings,

Dante

What can we learn from David and his mighty men...?

RaycoachingA few Saturday's ago in the morning of men's group, the facilitators talked about an article in the newspaper about a former Chicago Bears Linebacker, Mike Singletary, who is a coach in the NFL and had impacted some very big personalities (Vernon Davis and Ray Lewis).  Mike Singletary is a Christian man and the impact of his life and testimony off the field of battle (called the NFL) was clearly evident in these two controversial athletes.That being said, the conversation then turned to purely "man talk" (no crying aloud?).  We turned through various passages about David and his mighty men and the "three" and "thirty men" in particular.  What I found interesting is the different contrast (David and his mighty men compared compared to the Men of Faith at our church) but, then again, some similarities.  I am not comparing any of the guys in that room being able to kill 800 soldiers with a spear, but I would like to propose some other comparisons.

David's valiant menThere were 3 Chiefs in David's mighty men: 1) Josheb-Basshebeth, a Tahkemonite, was chief of the Three; he raised his spear against eight hundred men, whom he killed in one encounter. (2 Samuel 23:8). In Hebrew 'Tahkemonite' means one who possesses insight and practical wisdom.  2) Next to him was Eleazar son of Dodai the Ahohite. As one of the three mighty men, he was with David when they taunted the Philistines gathered at Pas Dammim for battle. Then the men of Israel retreated, but he stood his ground and struck down the Philistines till his hand grew tired and froze to the sword. The Lord brought about a great victory that day. The troops returned to Eleazar, but only to strip the dead. (2 Samuel  23:9–10). 'Eleazar', in Hebrew, means the Lord is my helper.  3) Next to him was Shammah son of Agee the Hararite. When the Philistines banded together at a place where there was a field full of lentils, Israel's troops fled from them. But Shammah took his stand in the middle of the field. He defended it and struck the Philistines down, and the Lord brought about a great victory. (2 Samuel 23:11–12).  The word 'Shammah', when used by itself, means ruin or desolation, but the names the word 'Agee' is similar to a word meaning flame and 'Hararite' means mountaineer.

The one thing that stuck out was the men that followed David to battle were not well established men in the local communities, but they were outcasts and social misfits and wayward men that followed David with no questions asked. They trusted each other.  They believed in his leadership and his right to be king of Israel.  They loved him and would die for him.

ArmorOfGodBringing that forward to modern day warfare, that is, we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers of this earth that are not of God.  We call this spiritual warfare.  We are told as Christians (and taught) that we should put on the whole armor of God - daily.

I propose that when David was walking with other men in his life (his mighty men, Jonathon, and so on) that he was held accountable.  His men would do anything for him - and they did.  He was fighting daily with them side by side.  He cared for others and led the way that God wanted him to lead.

However, when David become complacent and lost his accountability (fellowship with other men) - things happened - Bathsheeba and so on.  We are responsible for our growth - by reading the word of God daily.  By being a part of a community of believers.  By prayer and supplication.  By walking with others and listening to godly men preach God's word.

When we try to do it alone - trouble.  When we try to do it God's way - we travel the path of an abundant life that is only found in Him, his Son (Jesus Christ) and through his Spirit (that provides the growth in our lives).

What confirmed through that Saturday morning is that we all need this accountability in our life - a group of men that will go to war with me and carry me through any and every situation.  The most awesome thing that we learn through this is, "Less of me and more of God!"  What does that look like?

We have our answers, but do us a favor:  1) Join a men's group, or a bible study 2) if you don't have one, then ask some godly men in your local church to start a group and walk with each other (if that isn't happening) then 3) ask your Pastor or Elder to start one that you can be a part of - and grow!

Let us know how it goes,

Dante