The Dangerous Book

I stumbled across an article on The Dangerous Book for Boys and was quite fascinated by it.  This is truly a Legacy Dad book, though I have not read it, it looks great.  Disney has also snatched up the rights to make a film out of the books content. 

Here is a preview:

Equal parts droll and gorgeous nostalgia book and heartfelt plea for arenewed sense of adventure in the lives of boys and men, Conn and HalIggulden's The Dangerous Book for Boysbecame a mammoth bestseller in the United Kingdom in 2006.

Adapted, inmoderation, for American customs in this edition (cricket is gone,rugby remains; conkers are out, Navajo Code Talkers in), The Dangerous Bookis a guide book for dads as well as their sons, as a reminder of loreand technique that have not yet been completely lost to the digitalage.

Recall the adventures of Scott of the Antarctic and the Battle ofthe Somme, relearn how to palm a coin, tan a skin, and, mostcharmingly, wrap a package in brown paper and string. The book'sambitions are both modest and winningly optimistic: you get the sensethat by learning how to place a splint or write in invisible ink, a boymight be prepared for anything, even girls (which warrant a small butwise chapter of their own).

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A Fathers Guilt

I often feel guilt.  In my professional, I frequently spend time away from my family.

I feel guilty for being gone
I feel guilty for not making the most of the time I have
I feel guilty for choosing a professional that keeps me away from my family
I feel guilty when my kids come to me and I am preoccupied

But most of all I feel guilty when I wonder if I am doing all that I can to prepare and raise my children to be spiritual warriors.  Am I being too lenient,  Am I being to strict,  Am I focusing on the proper areas to cultivate? 

When this guilt comes, I simply pray and ask God to continue to help me to be the best husband, father and friend that I can be.  To continue to allow the Holy Spirit to guide me down the path the Lord has designed for me.  To fill my heart with His love and allow me to be at ease.

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Back to School

The Open House is over, the supplies are purchased, the backpacks filled. 

New soccer cleats
New school clothes
New shoes
New backpacks
Son requesting "Heelys"
Daughter wants piano lessons and horseback riding lessons
Mom's taking 2 Graduate classes = Books = $$$
Dad's attending "professional development course" for 4 months.

It's that time again...

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Creating Moments

I believe life is all about creating special moments and the funny thing is most of the time they just pop up at unexpected times.  When I think back of my childhood, I remember the most obscure special moments. It didn't take thousands of dollars or a huge production, it just took spending quality time with someone special. 

Take a look at this Great Father and Son Moment from Chris Cobbett posted by Steve over at Inside Fatherhood.  These moments can be created by simply spending time with your children and the more of these moments you can create, the more memories they will have. 

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Back to Basics

My worldly possessions are still on a slow boat from Europe but the broadband is again flowing through the household.  Which means its time to get this show on the road. 

I'm heading back to basics, back to the meat of what this blog is about.  Cold Hard Fatherhood. Let us move into the next chapter and see the old man working behind the curtain. 

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Through the looking glass

I just wanted to give everyone a look into my investing world, we are half way through 2007 and my stocks are looking great so far.   My investing style includes 90% Index Mutual Funds mostly in Mid-cap, Small-cap, International and some Large and Micro Cap Funds.  My funds come from my 401k provider (Barclays), Vanguard and Bridgeway Funds.

However, 10% of my overall portfolio goes to individual stocks and options.   This is my small area to "pick winners" and to increase my overall portfolio average.  For more information on how I pick stocks, mutual funds and how I constructed my overall portfolio, see the financial books in my bookstore on the bottom right of the blog.   

These are the stocks I bought in the 4th Quarter of 2006.  Most have a 2-4% dividend yield except EGLE as noted.  You can see by the 100% average gain so far how this can greatly increase your overall portfolio average.

Note: Investing is risky if you are not properly educated; there are no risky investments, only risky investors who invest in areas they are not familiar with.  So in order to have success as an investor, get educated in investing before making financial decisions.

AHL    -                  3.52 %

AXS     -                  6.29 %

BSY    -                   33.87 %

DRYS  -                   314.22 %

DSX    -                   83.89 %

DVN   -                   15.22 %

EGLE  -                   49.10 %   + 8%  Dividend Yield

IPCR   -                   13.58 %

SCG    -                   8.47 %

SUP    -                   9.36 %

TLK    -                   27.26 %

NM (Warrants)       692.87 %

Average Gain         100.54 %